Merry Christmas 2008

Breakfast has been consumed and the trip out to the boardwalk was uneventful. There is very dense fog on the island at the moment and it reminded me of some horror movies I have seen in the past. I almost expected some monster to come out of the fog with a chainsaw in its hand. I guess that means that I have seen way too many horror films and thankfully enough nothing appeared out of the fog.

I am drinking my Hazelnut Cream coffee that a friend of mine bought me for my birthday. Life is good and I am glad that I have friends that love me and are thoughtful on my birthday. I am enjoying the coffee so much I even offered it to some of my select coworkers. I would love to offer it to everyone on the boardwalk but that would mean I would have to get out of my chair and make a fresh pot. I am way too comfortable to do that and the selfish side of me just does not want to go through too much of this good stuff and risk not having enough for myself.

The network is running smoothly and everyone is nestled safely behind their glowing monitors and that means I am taking the time to do some much needed blogging. I missed my calling in life which would be to write full time for a living. Then again, I love technology so much that if I wrote for a living I would not get the satisfaction of solving all the problems that I solve and enjoy the fact that my talents enable others to enjoy using the technology themselves. The thought of having to write for a living means that some of the leisurely relaxation that I get from writing would go out the window. Writing is 10% inspiration and 90% perspiration. That is what one of my editors from years gone by reminded me of each time she would critique my writing.

Christmas 2008 is almost upon us and while it is 17 shopping days to Christmas the retailers have been pushing the holiday on us for the last 60 days. That in my opinion totally ruins the spirit of Christmas for me. The idea of Christmas to the retailers is to separate us of our money in return for lots of stuff to put under the tree. No, there is nothing wrong with giving or getting presents. The only problem I find with all of this is the focus is all wrong. Instead of saying Happy Holidays or Merry Xmas it should be Merry CHRISTmas. Christmas is about the Christ child, Emanuel, God with us. We have heard this story through the centuries to the point that it has just become a fable or wise tale that we celebrate. The only problem with that is the important significance of who Christ IS has been lost for the sake of having fun, drinking and being merry.

Our Christmas will be a somewhat frugal one. There will not be a lot of presents under the tree. We told our children that if they receive one present per child that they should count themselves blessed. Our children are teenagers so they understand that money does not grow on trees and that times are extremely tough. Just because Christmas may not be filled with lots of giving and getting of cool presents does not mean that we can not find other ways to give to one another and it not cost a lot of cash.

Just yesterday I registered online to become part of the Freecycle distribution list in Goose Creek and Charleston. Freecycle is sort of Craigslist but it focuses mainly on the giving and receiving of stuff that others are getting rid of. If you have something that you are no longer using and you want to bless someone else who does need it you offer it up on Freecycle. The whole idea is to keep the landfills to a minimum and gift the item to someone whom you chose to give it to. You offer the item up and go through the responses and decide who gets it. You are not obligated to fulfill any sort of requirements when choosing who gets it. Last night someone offered up a fake Christmas tree that they were getting rid of. They labeled it as a “Charlie Brown” looking sort of tree but it came with lights and red bows and a stand. Yes, it is used and slightly worn but it is quite functional and with a little bit of care it will work great as our Christmas tree this year. That also equates to a 40 to 50 dollar savings in my budget. That is 40 or 50 bucks that I can spend on a present. How can I go wrong with that?

One of our Christmas presents this year will be our move from the bottom of the hill in Goose Creek to the top of the hill on the other side of Goose Creek near Walmart. I know some of you are thinking, what is the big deal with that? If you have ever heard of Jeff Foxworthy you have heard the “you must be a redneck if” jokes. One of my favorites which fit this paragraph says “You must be a redneck if instructions to your house include turn off the paved road”. Well, instructions to our house, for the last 7 years has been “go to the end of the road, drop off the pavement, go around the old oak tree and find the next to the last trailer on the left at the bottom of the hill”. I guess that means we must be rednecks.

Yes, we are so thankful to have been able to move to a much nicer dwelling than the double wide trailer however I want to make sure to remember that we were living at Suburban Lodge at Ashely Phosphate and I -26 when we found it. We moved to Charleston in June or July of 2000 because our daughter Jessica had taken ill with cancer. We chose Charleston and MUSC for her treatment because it was closer to Bluffton than Memphis Tennessee. My wife and I were crammed into an efficiency with two beds, one bathroom and a tiny closet with our three children. We were living on top of one another and it seems as if we all stayed sick with colds all the time because of the close living quarters.

We were new in town, our credit was not the best and we did not have any savings that would afford us to move into a rental home of any type. We were not destitute because I did have a job still and was getting paid so we were at least able to pay rent somewhere.
Katy was part of a Circle of Friends distribution list in Charleston so she put out a plea asking those ladies if they knew of a place for us to move to. Much to our surprise our friend Shannon wrote us back and told of us a double wide trailer that was then available. Little did we know that our family and her family has several things in common and one of them was the fact that they had a child who had passed away.

What I am saying is that we have not forgotten where we were 7 or 8 years ago nor have we forgotten the huge blessing that Shannon and her family were during those 7 or 8 years as they graciously provided us with a place to stay and worked with us on the rent when times were extremely tough.

No matter where you live there are always some positives and negatives. One of the negatives with living in a double wide trailer surrounded by trees is that every time the weather would go south and there were threats of severe thunderstorms or possible tornados we would have to pack up the family and head for church. Much to my families dislike and much to my neighbor’s amusement this big chicken decided I would not sit still and take the chance that something might blow through the paper thin walls of that trailer and hurt me or my family. One of the things that precipitated my dislike of bad weather is that I was raised in NE Texas near the Oklahoma border and I have seen my fair share of tornados and severe weather and I have seen first hand what it can do to a mobile home. What do all of the weather warnings issued by NOAA say? If you live in a mobile home evacuate immediately and seek safe shelter. Need I say more?

The positive now and it is a huge Christmas present to all of us is that I am not acutely aware of the weather now. That means that when it rains outside I do not hear it because we do not have a metal roof 4 feet over our heads. I am not ignorant about the weather by any stretch of the imagination but I do feel somewhat safer which means that I am not quite as sensitive to it. That means that I get more sleep and my family is not inconvenienced by the bad weather drill of gathering the pillows, blankets and whatever it was we wanted to take with us into the vehicles for the mad dash to the church.

I could write more however I need to get back to the regularly scheduled work day. Whatever you do remember to take a deep breath and realize that you do not need to get sucked into the Christmas madness with all of the hectic shopping and parties. Do what you can within your means and do not go into debt just for the sake of giving a special present. Sometimes that special present needs to be taking the time out of your busy schedule to be with your loved ones and saying how much you love and appreciate them.
Keep Christ in Christmas and be thinking of ways to include HIM in your festivities.

Merry Christmas from our house to yours. Be blessed!!



James Moffitt
http://www.lightourworld.com
chiefpropellerhead@comcast.net